1. The of,fice bedroom
The workplace is the easiest place to cover up cheating. Travelling out of town or spending longer hours in the office are ideal for a fling. Julius Njeru recently discovered his wife had a bed in her office where he found his wife naked with a colleague.
Red flag: Comes home looking fresh but tired; or tries to over compensate for being away.
2. Sex at the gym
Cheating women love the gym and Angela Simaloi used her gym time to visit her mpango wa kando’s place or a nearby hotel. “The man used to pick me up after a brief workout at the gym. I would leave my car in the parking lot and we would drive off in his car. We would make out or have a quickie right there in the parking lot before going our separate ways.”
Red flag: Gym time is sacred; rarely talks about gym activities; always comes home happy, yet gym sessions should be exhausting.
See also: Husband Alert: Kenyan counties where women cheat the most
3. Sweetie, that’s my cousin
If your woman is always spending nights at her cousin’s house in Lang’ata or wherever with unknown friends, then it’s time you started raising questions.
Francis Njoroge, a real estate agent, says women secretly rent apartments where they take younger men.
“There is a time a wannabe politician rented out an apartment in Lang’ata and kept his young lover. When her husband and a respected doctor found out, he came over hoping to catch her red-handed. Luckily, her cousin also lived in the house.
“The man was embarrassed and apologised to his wife, not knowing that he had actually been tricked,” Francis told The Nairobian, adding that other women rent apartments in groups and take turns for flings with their men there. The men, who are mostly younger, are not allowed to overstay their welcome when the ‘business’ is done.
Red flag: You have never seen the said cousins, or the condo!
4. Work trips abroad
In the past, women fooled their husbands by going for local trips with their mpango wa kandos. This trick has become too common and risky. They have now upgraded to flying out with their chamas or for fictitious work-related assignments.
Anthony Otieno who recently signed divorce papers says, “I had never suspected until a friend called me to inform me that he had seen my 54-year-old wife with a boy young enough to be my son.
“I started investigating and realised they had been travelling together on all her work trips. Can you believe that I financed some of his trips in the name of pocket money?” Anthony lamented, adding that he never even got gifts when the wife came back from the trips.
Red flag: Unusual bank withdrawals or credit card spending; no dropping or picking from the airport!
5. Tony is my cab guy
If your wife has a car but still insists on using the same taxi guy, usually named Mike, Dennis or Tony, then it’s time to check that out.
Elias Mwanana, a communications executive, suspected there was something going on between his wife and the taxi man, but had no tangible evidence until recently.
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