Friday, February 26, 2016

Going Really Big On Beauty With Curves


Going Really Big On Beauty With Curves
Coutesy: Sowetan
Let's face it, when it comes to sexy lingerie, the mental picture that comes to mind for most people is usually the Victoria's Secret fashion show, with stick-thin models and skimpy underwear.
But what happens to large plus-sized women who also want sexy lingerie?
For most people, the concept is unheard of. Many large women often struggle to find underwear that is not limited to granny panties, oversized bras and generally unattractive undergarments.
Why can't large women also have sexy, lace and barely there underwear options like their skinny figured
sisters?
This is the exact question that propelled 28-year-old boutique owner Boipelo Makobe to do something about it.
Makobe recently launched a range of plus-sized lingerie, designed for large women starting from size 40.
Her store, called EDSN, is in Hatfield, Pretoria.
Makobe works with a team of tailors who turn her sketches into the finished product. She says the underwear is custom made, so they measure a client's bust, hips and waist to fit your body to a T.
The clients also choose if they want extra padding or a "push-up" effect to enhance their bosom.
Makobe says she got the brain spark of the range when she noticed how her friends and family struggled to find the right underwear for their figures.
"Seeing young members of my family having to wear boring underwear because they struggled to get a size from other brands which make sexy lingerie, and also seeing women walking with bra straps digging into their shoulders, made me want to do something about it.
"Since I already make clothes for plus-sized women, I just decided to make women beautiful from the inside out."
How large does it get? "My range starts from women who are a size 40, and a bust from cup size D. People often laugh when I tell them my panty sizes go up to 7XL!"
But this is true. Makobe has designed underwear for a woman who required size 7XL, making it clear that her range caters to all large women, regardless of size.
"The range was created because I believe everyone deserves to look and feel sexy no matter their size or shape. The range is specifically for plus-size ladies with curves and a big bust. The panties start from size large till 7XL. It's custom made lingerie to ensure that every time a person places an order they can get a matching set in any type of panty they prefer, for example a G-string or high cut. We use beautiful luxurious lace. Some of the bras have cushioned straps for extra comfort. Clients can order from anywhere in SA, and the order process is very easy. So no more granny looking panties or sets that don't match," she says.
Makobe says large women should realise that they are also sexy, and should not be apologetic about wanting to wear sexy lingerie.
"Who said when you are a plus-size you don't want to feel sexy? There are a lot of men who appreciate plus-size ladies so I'm sure they would appreciate seeing them in sexy lingerie. Sexy is not a certain size, especially for Africans. We are very gifted when it comes to ample thighs, hips, backsides and boobs, and we should be able to embrace that."
But for the more coy and shy large-sized woman who might want some coverage, Makobe says her range also offers more conservative options of underwear.
Makobe says what also makes her range unique is how much support it offers, as well as the padded bra straps, which makes a huge difference as one of the things larger women struggle with is the straps digging into their skin.
Her collection is priced from R599 a set, and she can cater to any woman from cup size D to H.

Woman Arrested Over Son’s Death While Allegedly "Exorcising Demons"


Woman Arrested Over Son’s Death While Allegedly "Exorcising Demons"
The woman, Irene Mbithe, was arrested on Thursday after residents of Kangurue slum in the capital Nairobi raised alarm over the suspicious death of her son, Brian Kibet.
When police arrived at the scene, the child's tongue and intestines had been pulled out in an attempt to "free him" from the said demons.
In a video posted on Youtube by K24 television, Brian's aunt Catherine Muthama expressed shock over the ordeal.
"Nilishangaa sana kufika hapa kuona mama mtoto amevuruta ulimi ya mtoto kabisa na nikamuuliza kwanini anamaiza mtoto (When I arrived I was surprised to see the mother having pulled out the tongue of the baby and I screamed at her asking why she had killed him," she said.
Neighbours said the exorcism went on the whole night on Wednesday, adding that the commotion in the house was abnormal.
The child's mother, who spoke in Swahili, maintained that she meant no harm to him.
"Mungu nifungwe kama kuna kitu kibaya nimetendea huyu mtoto wangu ambaye nimeombea sana kupata (God punish me if I have done anything wrong to my son who I love so much and have prayed for years to conceive and give birth to)," she said.
Police took Mbithe for questioning at the Kayole Police station while the body of the baby was taken to the mortuary.
Exorcism is defined as as a process or action that is used to get rid of an evil spirit.
Cases of exorcism are not new to Kenya.
Last year a man who was allegedly exorcised of a homosexual demon was picked up while swimming in Kenya's Coastal city of Mombasa. He claimed to have been given the demon by two men whom he swam with, according to Emmanuel TV.

‘Why I slept with my grandfather’


‘Why I slept with my grandfather’

Early last year, Kenyans were stunned when a 56-year-old woman moved to court to sue her step grandchild aged 24 for snatching her husband reports Standard Kenya.
The family feud had reportedly been brewing for three years before spilling out. Grace Mwende accused Florence Nduku of insulting her through a chain of text messages after allegedly starting an intimate
Grace Mwende and Mwongela on their wedding
relationship with her husband, Daniel Mwongela, 61.
Nduku is facing six counts of misusing a communication gadget.  Some of the text messages received between July 12, 2013 and early 2015 referred to Mwende as an “old hag” who “could not satisfy the old man” and that she lost her “sweetness a long time ago,” thus it was her (Nduku’s) turn to enjoy the old man’s “honey.”
She also reportedly insulted Mwende that she is a witch and husband snatcher who once sold herself in five-star hotels.
She denied the charges and was set free on a Sh100,000 cash bail or bond of Sh300,000 with a surety of a similar amount.
But in an unexpected turn of events, Nduku has changed her mind in court and confessed that Mwongela proposed to her and she was unhappy to share him with her granny Mwende.
“I acted out of anger and I’m very sorry. We were sharing a man with Mwende. He (Mwongela) had promised to marry me,” Nduku stated in her mitigation.
Their purported secret relationship came to light in 2011 just three months after Mwende, a boutique owner and Mwongela wedded in a church ceremony in Machakos.
Initially, Mwongela who worked in Malindi, used to visit Mwende  in Nairobi on a monthly basis, but unknown to her, Nduku - who was one of her bridesmaids during their wedding - was also eyeing the old man.
Nduku worked at her grandmother’s boutique where her fight with a colleague over a man made her quit her job “to concentrate on her relationship with Mwongela” in what later escalated to insulting text messages directed at her grandmother. 
Nduku told the court that she has been in an intimate relationship with Mwongela and it would be tiresome to appear in court daily.
Besides, she claimed to be in the process of preparing to leave the country for unknown reasons and hence her change of plea and stunning confession.
 Nduku was fined Sh10,000 in five counts or serve three months in jail for all the counts. She was however discharged on one count, a ruling that Mwende claims to be ‘fishy,’ considering the initial bond terms.
“At the moment, I don’t have the heart to forgive Nduku for what she did to me. It hurts a lot and I don’t think I will even forgive her,” Mwende told The Nairobian.
According to Mwende, the text messages were gross and ruined her relationship with other family members and “some elders have since approached me that I ought to forgive her but it is hard because I raised her like my own.”
She added that, “The bitter part is how her father defended her and told me he is ready to receive dowry from Mwongela. For now, I will just take a break before embarking on the next course of action and probably find another option to seek justice.”

Thursday, February 25, 2016

Grammy Award-winning Gospel Singer Announces Divorce After 20 Years Of Marriage Says “I failed and sinned


Grammy Award-winning Gospel Singer Announces Divorce After 20 Years Of Marriage
Says “I failed and sinned
 Grammy Award-winning gospel artiste, Israel Houghton has announced that he is officially divorced from his wife of twenty years, Meleasa Houghton.
In a statement to fans on his Facebook page, the singer admitted to failing and sinning in his marriage. He said that they tried to work through it for the last 5 years but the challenges proved to be too much to overcome.
Add captionIsrael Houghton with wife Meleasa in happier times
The full statement read as follows;
It is with a collective heavy heart that we announce that after over 20 years of marriage and a long separation, Meleasa and I are officially divorced.
Several years ago I failed and sinned in my marriage. Though this is new to many, it is not new to us as we have been working through this for over 5 years. Although we tried, the challenges in our relationship have proven too much to overcome. We have always handled our family and ministry with grace and generosity toward others, discretion, and privacy. So, for the sake of our amazing kids, we are also handling this privately with pastoral oversight and assistance. We choose to remain friendly and kind to each other going forward.
I am in the process of restoration and I have repented for my actions. Although I am sincerely sorry, and forgiven, I soberly realize that I will live with the consequences of my failings for the rest of my life. As this has become a public matter I want to apologize to the many who have supported my ministry through the years. I'm sorry for the many who will be hurt to learn of my personal failure. I regret any pain or disappointment that this news may cause you.
We thank you for your prayers and for allowing us to handle this privately with those who are set over us in this process.
Prayerfully

Adele Breaks Down After 4th Win @ 2016 BRIT Awards Adele won the MasterCard British Album of the Year on a triumphant evening at this year's BRIT Awards- her fourth win of the night. The Hello singer continued her incredible musical comeback with the prestigious prize at the annual ceremony. She was visibly upset as she received the fourth award of the night, and said: "I'm really sorry about swearing earlier and I'm really sorry for the ugly face." She went on to thank her fans, and added: "You're so amazing thanks so much, honestly you're incredible, you blow me away every time." But it was her family who were first in her mind, as she said: "Thank you to my boyfriend you support me in everything I do. And thank you to my lovely son, who is the love of my life. This is all for you peanut. She concluded happily: "I didn't get cut off and I didn't swear." The best and brightest the industry has to offer were joined by fans in London on Wednesday night, as the star collected the honour for her return record 25. Her album also spawned huge single Hello, which was recognised with the British Single award, whilst Adele also claimed the British Female Solo Artist gong.


Adele Breaks Down After 4th Win @ 2016 BRIT Awards
Adele won the MasterCard British Album of the Year on a triumphant evening at this year's BRIT Awards- her fourth win of the night.
The Hello singer continued her incredible musical comeback with the prestigious prize at the annual ceremony.
Adele
She was visibly upset as she received the fourth award of the night, and said: "I'm really sorry about swearing earlier and I'm really sorry for the ugly face."
She went on to thank her fans, and added: "You're so amazing thanks so much, honestly you're incredible, you blow me away every time."
But it was her family who were first in her mind, as she said: "Thank you to my boyfriend you support me in everything I do. And thank you to my lovely son, who is the love of my life. This is all for you peanut.
She concluded happily: "I didn't get cut off and I didn't swear."
The best and brightest the industry has to offer were joined by fans in London on Wednesday night, as the star collected the honour for her return record 25.
Her album also spawned huge single Hello, which was recognised with the British Single award, whilst Adele also claimed the British Female Solo Artist gong.