Having spent 20
years of her life in marriage to one man, actress, Omotola Jolade Ekhinde can
be regarded
as experienced enough to advise other couples on what it takes to
make the institution of marriage succeed. That is why she has made bold to
point to the way through her tips for it to work, especially among celebrities.
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| Omotola |
With the rate at which celebrity marriages are falling
apart, the veteran Nollywood actress' advice is much needed.
Omotola who was one of the panelists at the Innovation
Warehouse, a mentorship programme for aspiring filmmakers and actors during the
just concluded Africa International Film Festival in Lagos, shared her own
insight into the workings of a successful marriage.
She emphasised that in marriages between those who work in
the entertainment industry, partners must share
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| Omotola and hubby |
Said she: “They
must believe in you.
"If you’re a
Christian and you marry someone who is not born again then you are on your own.
Your partner needs to be stronger than you. They are the ones getting the
aftermath of your own action.
"Choose a
partner who understands entertainment. Don’t choose your fan. Personally, I
don’t believe in love at first sight. Pick someone who sees your heart, your
soul, someone who sees the real you and not afraid to tell you about your
flaws.
"Discipline is
key. Everyone wants freedom but too much freedom is bad. Be disciplined. It’s
better to be an enemy to a work partner than to your family. Learn to say No!
"We are like
nurses and doctors in the industry because we can be called upon at any time”.
Understanding the pressures younger actors and actresses
face to get a movie, Omotola advised that they must be wary of such advances.
She further stated:
“Sometimes you will get a role for giving yourself out but you won’t be able to
retain it.
If you become
famous it will later haunt you. But don’t run away from your sexuality, don’t
shy away from who you are, enjoy who you are, come on there but come out with
substance."
Omotola is happily married to Captain Matthew Ekeinde and they
are blessed with four lovely kids.
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